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Between the Sheets: The Underlying Psychology Behind Your Dreams

  • Writer: Emilia Kasprzak
    Emilia Kasprzak
  • Oct 17, 2024
  • 6 min read


Have you ever woken up from a dream that felt so vivid and wondered, "What on was that all about?" For as long as humans have been around, dreams have been a source of fascination. Dreams are defined as subjective mental experiences that occur during sleep, most frequently during the REM (rapid eye movement) stage that can be studied through various psychological and neuroscientific lenses. The psychology of dreams is a captivating field of study that has intrigued scholars for centuries.


Every culture, from the ancient Egyptians to modern-day psychologists, has tried to decipher what they mean and why we have them. And let's face it, dreams often feel so personal and strange that it's hard not to believe they hold some deeper significance. Due to the speculative and highly debated nature of the subject, numerous psychological theories have emerged, each attempting to explain the purpose and meaning of dreams.


Cultural Interpretations

In many cultures, dreams are seen as important messages or even prophetic visions. Some Indigenous groups, for example, view dreams as spiritual journeys or ways of connecting with ancestors. In Chinese culture, dreams can be warnings or guidance from the spiritual realm, while in ancient Greece, they were thought to be divine messages. Dreams matter because they carry symbolic meanings that resonate with us on both personal and cultural levels. But what if we really want to understand what our dreams mean today? How can we reconcile age-old beliefs with modern science?


Common Dreams and Their Interpretations

We’ve all had dreams that leave us wondering- whether it’s the one where you’re falling, or the one where you’re suddenly back in high school and forgot your homework. Let’s break down a few common dream themes:


  • Falling: One of the most common dreams, often interpreted as a fear of losing control or feeling overwhelmed. Psychoanalysts might say it reflects anxiety or insecurity in your life.

  • Being Chased: This dream usually symbolizes avoidance or running away from something in waking life. It could be a responsibility, a relationship, or even a deeper issue like unresolved trauma.

  • Losing Teeth: Losing teeth in dreams is often linked to feelings of helplessness, embarrassment, or fear of aging. It’s a vulnerable dream that can connect to anxieties about appearance or how others perceive you.

  • Flying: Dreaming that you’re flying often feels exhilarating and freeing, usually tied to a sense of liberation, success, or breaking free from limitations.


But how much weight should we give these interpretations? What does science have to say?



What Science Says About Dreams…

  1. REM (Rapid Eye Movement)

While these dream interpretations resonate with many people, science gives us a different perspective. Most dreams occur mostly during REM (Rapid Eye Movement) sleep, when our brain is highly active, yet disconnected from external stimuli (ScienceDirect Topics, n.d.). When someone enters REM sleep, their brain exhibits high-frequency, low-amplitude waves similar to those seen during wakefulness, which is a strong indicator that dreaming is occurring (ScienceDirect Topics, n.d.). The high level of activity in the limbic system during REM sleep may explain why dreams often have a strong emotional component. By monitoring these physiological signs alongside brain activity, researchers can reliably determine when a person is in the dreaming phase of sleep by conducting various testing such as sleep studies and EEG recordings (Wamsley, 2014).



  1. Freudian Psychoanalysis

One of the earliest and most influential theories comes from Sigmund Freud, the father of Psychoanalysis. Freud believed that dreams provide a window into the unconscious mind, allowing access to repressed thoughts, desires, and motivations (Zhang & Guo, 2018). According to his Psychoanalytic theory, dreams have two levels: the manifest content (the literal storyline), and the latent content, (the hidden psychological meaning). Freud argued that dreams serve as wish fulfillment, offering insight into unresolved inner conflicts that we may not be consciously aware of (Zhang & Guo, 2018). For Freud, the analysis of dreams was a critical tool for uncovering deeper emotional issues.


  1. Activation Synthesis Theory- Hobson & McCarley

Neuroscientists like Hobson and McCarley argue that dreams might just be our brain's way of making sense of random neural firing. Their Activation-Synthesis Theory suggests that dreams are merely the brain’s attempt to make sense of random neural activity during sleep. Electrical impulses originate from the brainstem, activating various areas of the brain. The cerebral cortex, responsible for higher cognitive functions, interprets these signals and creates narratives (American Journal of Psychiatry, 1977). According to this theory, dreams don't necessarily have deep, symbolic meanings- they're more like our brain's creative attempt to impose order on internal chaos (American Journal of Psychiatry, 1977)


  1. Cognitive Psychology Perspective 

Cognitive psychologists see dreams as extensions of our waking thoughts, a kind of mental processing. Ever notice how you sometimes dream about things you’re stressed or excited about? According to this view, dreams help us problem-solve, process emotions, or even consolidate memories (Nir & Tononi, 2010). Some research suggests that your brain uses dreaming as a way to strengthen new memories by tying them to old ones (Wamsley, 2014). So that bizarre dream you had about being late for a flight might actually be your brain’s way of linking current anxieties to previous experiences.


Balancing Science with Symbolism

It’s easy to get caught up in the dream interpretations that seem to make sense to us personally. After all, it feels empowering to say, “I had a dream about flying because I’m finally feeling free of my old job.” At the same time, it’s important to remember that, scientifically speaking, dreams may not be as full of hidden messages as we think.


But maybe that’s okay. Maybe dreams can be both- a mix of personal symbolism and random brain activity. If nothing else, they offer a unique insight into our inner worlds, giving us the chance to reflect on our emotional state, our desires, and even our anxieties. The key is to not rely too heavily on any one interpretation. Whether you're inclined to follow Freud's idea of dreams as a window into the unconscious, or you're more in line with the neuroscientific perspective that dreams are just noise, they give us an opportunity for self-reflection.


How to Work with Your Dreams...

So, what can you do if you're interested in understanding your dreams? Here are some practical tips:


  1. Keep a Dream Journal: Write down your dreams as soon as you wake up. This helps you remember details and notice patterns over time.

  2. Look for Emotional Themes: Don’t just focus on the images- pay attention to how the dream made you feel. Emotions can give more clues about what’s going on in your subconscious than specific symbols.

  3. Ask Yourself What’s Going on in Your Life: Dreams often reflect what we’re dealing with in waking life. Are you stressed about work? Excited about a new relationship? These everyday emotions often show up in dreams in symbolic form.

  4. Consult Both Science and Symbolism: It doesn’t have to be either-or. Use what resonates with you—whether that’s dream interpretation or simply recognizing that your brain might be problem-solving in creative ways while you sleep.



Tips & Key Takeaways:

Below are some tips on how to improve your sleep (Cleveland Clinic, 2024):


Ultimately, whether we view dreams as random firings of a tired brain or as deeply symbolic messages, they are part of the human experience. There is no single theory that fully explains why we dream, and the purpose of dreaming remains a highly debated open question. They give us a fascinating window into our own minds- one that reflects our culture, upbringing, the society that we live in, and our individual lives. After all, we spend a third of our lives asleep; it’s worth understanding what our dreams might be telling us, even if the answer is still a bit of a mystery!


References

The brain as a Dream State Generator: An activation-synthesis hypothesis of the dream process. American Journal of Psychiatry. (1977, December 1). https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/10.1176/ajp.134.12.1335?url_ver=Z39.88-2003&rfr_id=ori%3Arid%3Acrossref.org&rfr_dat=cr_pub++0pubmed


Nir, Y., & Tononi, G. (2010, February). Dreaming and the brain: From phenomenology to neurophysiology. Trends in cognitive sciences. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2814941/#:~:text=Dreaming%20is%20what%20occurs%20when,world%20%5B13%2C%2014%5D


Professional, C. C. medical. (2024, August 2). Controlled zzzs. Cleveland Clinic. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/12148-sleep-basics 


Rapid Eye Movement Sleep. Rapid Eye Movement Sleep - an overview | ScienceDirect Topics. (n.d.). https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/social-sciences/rapid-eye-movement-sleep 


Wamsley, E. J. (2014, March). Dreaming and offline memory consolidation. Current neurology and neuroscience reports. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4704085/ 


Zhang, W., & Guo, B. (2018, August 23). Freud’s Dream Interpretation: A different perspective based on the self-organization theory of dreaming. Frontiers in psychology. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6115518/ 


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Oct 19, 2024
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.

This is such a great blog. I always was curious about what my dreams meant

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Oct 17, 2024
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.

So interesting! I will definitely be keeping a dream journal after reading this.

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